"Harry does feel inadequate as he felt when he was a member of the Royal Family," Quinn explains, "but his love for his wife makes all the difference." The expert believes that Harry, by nature, is not one to take center stage - a dynamic that has only intensified since leaving the more rigidly structured confines of the monarchy.
In contrast, Meghan has demonstrated a drive and decisiveness that Harry perhaps lacks. "Meghan is the dynamo that drives the enterprise," says Quinn, noting the former actress's own hard-earned success, from small roles to her star turn on Suits.
So while Harry may have hoped to escape the "spare" label, he has in some ways assumed a similar position in his marriage - content, it seems, to let his more assertive wife take the lead. It's a dynamic born perhaps more of Harry's own personality than any imbalance of power. As the expert concludes, "Being with a masterful woman who likes to make decisions is not the same...as being subject always to other people's decisions."
